Where should I start? I guess with the weather. It has been raining all week, well today is the first day it hasn’t rained. This means… ta-da… Dust has been home this last week. He works out on ranches; doing oil wells. If it is raining and he attempts to move the rig he tears up the roads. So generally (depending on location), if it is raining he can’t work. Well he can work the location he is at, but can’t then move to a new location. This equates Dustin wanting attention, LOTS of it. So right there part of my day is shot.
Then Heaven was visiting her aunt (and other family), which means? Ta…da… Nina is bored and wanting attention too. This also takes a good chunk of my day away.
I haven’t even had time to get to my silly game, and play. Now i have checked into and played on facebook after all the games I play on there only take like 20 minutes. (Which is mafia wars, my zoo and farm town if anyone wants to join me.) Oh and I totally join everything I am invited to play, but I don’t actually play them. I just like giving people bigger crews for games.
Nina and I baked a cake, Dustin and I talked about all sorts of things. Yesterday I went and picked Heaven up. Then last night Dustin and I had a date night (Italian dinner followed by Star Trek movie), it was nice.
Heaven is doing good, her prednisone being taken out has pretty much returned her to normal. This is good and bad. The good? She is acting like Heaven. The bad? She is totally her normal teen aged (argue, want to make all her own choices, boy crazy) self. We just got into an arguement day before yesterday. I posted on my “blog” at myspace about it. She decided that she wants to try again with her day, which is good and bad (if he disappoints her again I will be upset, but I really do want her to have a relationship with him.) So she tells me that, and tells me that if he wants her to come for the summer she is going. So then I explain I am the mother, so I will decide what she will or won’t be doing. We argue about this point. So she posts that she can visit her dad, and she will run away if I try to stop her. So I post telling her I said we would play it by ear, and I didn’t say NO, I said MAYBE. I woke up to having the post deleted (she knows my password on myspace as she normally checks it for me as I don’t go there often.) Evidently a friend of hers saw my post and yelled at her, so she deleted it. At least she has dropped the subject…
Sigh, the drama of having a teen daughter. The time of having other family… I am really ready for some good alone time, and perhaps some cleaning time… Then at least to be able to check into my game…
Need more hours in the day…